Sir's Commandments ....

My First Commandment: Self Care.  ❤
 "What does that mean?" I am often asked. Self Care is The Most Important of my Commandments, it is the key to true happiness in life, it means, Give To You. Be generous to You, DO well For You, Eat well For You, Do little nice things just for You, Take best care of your beautiful body, Be Tender with You and your precious heart, Reward You, be Master of your Sex, Satisfy your needs, Indulge For You, in whatever it is you need that's healthy and good for you. Be Positive and an expression of You and who you are, and how you feel about being a Positive person in this world. Self Care, without a doubt, the most important Commandment.


My Second Commandment: Per Amore , For Love... ❤
Those magical forever words, Live your life For Love, Act For Love, Be Strong, For Love, Resist and Respect temptation, For Love...do it all, every little thing you ever can, Per Amore, For Love ❤


My Third Commandment: Stand Tall, 👨
 Live your life with Maximum Integrity at all times, Make your Morals your pillars, Do Not Choose to be Morally Wrong in your actions and life choices, hard as that may be at times, and you will never have to live a life filled with guilt and regret.


My Fourth Commandment: Forever Mine,  💯
 Once Made a Miss Under My Hand, forever and always will that Miss have my graces, and may call upon me in her moment of need, and I shall be there, and appear upon my white horse, as I once was in her eyes, one more time to save her and help her thru a problem, and then, again I shall retreat into memories, forever shall I remain a Beautiful Ghost for her perhaps.


My Fifth Commandment: There is no Tomorrow. Live and Love for Today.  ☀
  Do It Now, There truly is no promise that you'll Ever have another chance...This Commandment has been learned thru my hardest pains, Heed it, Please, for one thing you will regret most is making the mistake that there is forever in which to do something, to take action, that things will wait for you, while the chance to do so Today is passing you by...Do Not Wait, Act now 😢


My Sixth Commandment: Let Go for Now, Don't Hold Onto whats Gone. ⛔
Remember those who walk away, never intended to stay. Let them go and Save Yourself, because for all the love you may have for them, if they will not return that love to you, no matter your ardent attempts to allow them to find their own way to do as such, no matter your concessions given to Only them, if in the end you cannot help them to that place of shared respect, shared wants and needs, then you must turn from that love, and search for one that will give and take the love you both share, and if those that you cannot help to express love choose to stab you in the back, have already put themselves far behind you 💔


My Seventh Commandment: Balance.  ⚖
Expect and demand back what you give to your Relationship and Partner, Balance is essential to a healthy relationship of any kind, and requires equal effort from the couple as individuals and as a whole, no matter if you are the Dominant or the submissive, it requires Equal Effort. ＝ 💯


My Eighth Commandment: Know Your Limits,  👼
 Spread Your Wings, but Don't spread yourself too far.


My Ninth Commandment: Self Pride.  👨👩
Stand Tall as a Mountain, and Be Proud of You for what you have done in your life, of who you are or who you are becoming. This is Not arrogance, this is not to Up your own stock, this is the basis of You..of What you stand for and how you express that in your life every single second, every single breath. This is Never to be little another, But, if you have lived your life with the Third Commandment in the forefront, you can walk tall thru any flames, and no matter the attacks that come, you can be proud of yourself, your actions taken in life, and How you approach your life, and allow others to be part of your life. Respect is to be Earned,  and those that expect it to be Given should learn fast and hard that is not the case.


My Tenth Commandment. Don't be a Fool,  Don't walk away,  ⚠
 from something you wish to keep for yourself, because by the time you turn around someone else will have kept it for themselves.


My Eleventh Commandment. Believe in Tomorrow.  👑  ⛪
  When you look ahead in life, you may as well look towards something beautiful. If you only picture a dark and dreary life and world around you, your entire understanding of the world becomes tainted and will surely corrupt and remove Many chances for positive things to happen, Choose a Happy and fulfilled tomorrow for you and your partner.


My Twelfth Commandment: Self Sacrifice for Your Love.   ❤👨👩
  In Love, one must be willing to give as much to that love as they do unto themselves, if not more at times, and to be selfless in that act, the lens and its focus must be removed from ones own life, and made to see the life of that shared world made between two loving hearts to be something of greatest value, it cant be a struggle to do that, it cant live as a regret for long, but more so the opposite, its to be given with joy, knowing that, what is given, shall be returned many many times to come from that one special person you trust with such investment and belief, and you are Investing in Love and Your life by doing this, it cant be one sided though, that never works, and it is the responsibility of both partners to remember and indulge the romantic hearts within them with the knowledge that the word We is as important as the word Me.  👫



CHANGE ❓❓❓
A Friend asks:"You make it sound so simple. Is it?" ❗❗❗

"Yes...it truly is, you first Stop, stop being afraid, stop worrying, stop fearing what might happen, cuz that brain of ours will make a million possibilities that could or couldn't happen, Start believing that it will come, it's all out there, of course, and you are no less meant to have that than anyone else, and so, Belief becomes both your sword and your shield...and from there on, you become a crusader for your own heart, and the hearts of others who believe as well...and then, one day, there's a guy on a big white horse standing in front of you with his hand extended asking you to go on a grand adventure with him...and that's how it happens, its just that simple.  ✔✔✔



❗❗❗ Sometimes, I read my own words, and I am pleased with whom I grew up to be ✔✔✔ The First Commandment...Self Care. ~Me 👨              Used with permission.

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