Thursday, May 10, 2018

My Submissive Lesson Maroon Course...........




                                                          My submissive training course

                                                                  Maroon Day 23/30


                                                             Don't be Desperate 
  


           What will you need to complete today?
           Pen.



               Being too eager is not always a good thing, you will often hear a Dominant complain about 
         how  a desperate submissive can be off putting. Patience is the hardest lesson to understand as a
         submissive.

               When you are too eager you can also endanger your rational thought, your emotional and 
         physical well-being and create a line for Dominants to take advantage of you.

               If your Dominant puts you in a room and tells you to wait patiently for him, do that, don’t 
         phone  Him 8 times in the hour because that is being too eager and desperate and no Dominant
         likes that.







                 So a submissive that is weak tends to come from a place of desperation. What this means is 
         the  submissive entering into the lifestyle has two strikes against her, and will fall prey to those 
         who are  ill-intentioned. The desperation causes a submissive to accept things that a submissive
         with a higher  esteem would not.


               Those who are desperate often exhibit the tendency to submit to anyone who will pay 
         attention.

               When a submissive is too eager then the eagerness gets tricky.

               Eagerness is a positive trait when exhibited in small amounts or directed at specific activities.
        It’s  great to  be eager to try something new or explore something new with your Dominant.  It’s
        also nice  to be eager to please when you have a Dominant and you know exactly what they need
        of you. Eagerness in an existing relationship can breathe spice and energy into your dynamic
        because you both know what to expect from each other and personal safety is responsibility for
        you both.

             But it turns to a more negative thing if when you are brand new or single, that you begin to
        disregard common sense, personal safety or naivety. When you are a brand new submissive and
        embrace that about you there may come a moment that you ache to do anything at all to please 
        someone and that’s where you can get too eager.


             Imagine the danger you could put yourself into if you meet a Dominant online and that night 
        you go meet him without securing your safety, setting up a safe call or knowing anything about 
        them.  Sure you are eager to please and want to be submissive “so badly” but it is never a good
        thing to forget  your common sense altogether . Eagerness can also be Frenzy.

            Be careful about calling what you are feeling as eagerness, when it might actually be sub
        frenzy. Frenzy is the intense ache to do everything and anything right away, all at once. It’s like
        withdrawal  from an addiction. You just got to have it, and you must have it now. So submissive's
        in frenzy will show  a lack of common sense and reckless behavior leading to desperation. Is your
       excessive eagerness really frenzy?


           Don’t be desperate.


             So, as you can see, being overly eager when not already in an existing relationship is a sign 
       that you are not in control and a danger to yourself and others. Because not only could you be
       injured  emotionally or physically but anyone that engages with you could regret it as well. How
       many  predators or men who just don’t mean you well do you think lurk online looking for
      desperate to serve submissive's just like you, who will do anything they ask without personal
      regard? Sure you  may not be talking to one right now, but how can you tell in your altered state?

            Ultimately, what we all need to learn when we are new is restraint. There are times for 
      eagerness  to please and there will be levels that are acceptable in the beginning. If we learn how
      to keep a lid on our desires that are bubbling over then perhaps we can use them to have a positive
      effect. Your desires to be submissive will still be with you after you learn more about yourself as a
      submissive and about the type of person and relationship that will work for you. So restrain
      yourself. You’ll know  when you are really ready to engage in submission freely, with someone
      you trust.


Grand Master Sean



Today’s to do list :

1] Write about this in your discussion section today and send to your course trainer.


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                                                                 Don't Be Desperate                                                       Maroon Course
                                                                        Discussion                                                                   Day 23/30


               Patience is one of the hardest lessons for a submissive to understand.  For
     example : if your Dominant puts you in a room and tells you to get into your
     kneeling position 1 (which mine is the normal kneeling position) and told to
     wait patiently for Him to return. He does not say how long He will be, but you
     are being tested on your patience.  If your Dominant tells you to wait here in 
     your kneeling position, then that is what is exactly what the submissive is to do.
     No calling out to Him, no phone calls or text's to Him. Your Master is expecting
     His submissive to sit and patiently wait for His return. By calling out you are
     showing your Dominant that you are too eager and also desperate for His return.
     A little secret submissive's, your Dominant's do not like that type of behavior.

          So a submissive that is weak tends to come from a place of desperation, which
     this means that the submissive entering into the lifestyle has two strikes against
     her and will fall prey to those who are ill intentioned.  The desperation causes a
     submissive to accept things that a submissive with a higher esteem wold not do.
     The desperate submissive will exhibit the tendency to submit to anyone who will
     pay attention to them.

          Showing eagerness to try something new or explore something new with your
     Dominant is a positive trait.

          New submissive's are eager to please and want to be submissive "so badly" ,
     but it is never a good thing to forget your common sense, and you put yourself
     into danger and forget about your safety.

          Be careful about calling what you are feeling as eagerness, when it might 
     actually be sub frenzy.  Sub Frenzy is the intense ache to do everything and  any
     thing right away all at once. It's like withdrawal from an addiction. You just got
     to have it and you must have it now. So submissive's in frenzy will show a lack of
     common sense and reckless behavior leading to desperation. So is your excessive
     eagerness really frenzy ?

          So being too eager can show you are desperate and put yourself in danger and
     shows you are not in full control of yourself, and not thinking of others that you
     can place into danger also.

          There are many predators out there, not only fake man who say they are 
     Dominants and go online to find weak or new submissive's that show they are
     desperate for a Dom. There are also predators out there that can use the lifestyle
     to find vulnerable and desperate new submissive's for human trafficking into
     the sex trade.

          So all I can say is to the new and eager submissive's be patient, you will know
     when you are really ready to engage in submission freely with a Dominant that
     you have gotten to get to know and you trust in Him. Submissive's already in 
     submission to your Dominant's show patience and be patient, do as your Dominant
     says to wait for Him.

          Patience is hard to master but the reward is worth it all and your Master will
     adore you for learning patience.

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                                          I hope and pray that you enjoy my discussion on this subject.
                                                          Take Care.  Be Safe.  Be Sane.  Be Consensual.
                                                                                       Be Smart !!!



Monday, May 7, 2018

My Submissive Maroon Lesson.........




                                                       Submissive Training Course

                                                              Maroon Day 15/30

                                        What A Dominant Needs From A Submissive







What will you need to complete today?
Pen.

When you’re a Dominant, you’ll be the one who is going to tell the submissive what to do, when to do it, and how to do it. However those parts of your relationship might seem clearer than other parts. While the submissive might think they simply have to follow your orders, they need to do more for you than they may have expected at first. Here are eleven things that your submissive can do for a Dominant in order to make your job easier.

The submissive must be Honest:

While it should go without saying, everyone in any relationship should be honest and clear with each other. When a sub isn’t clear about what they are feeling or what they need, then the Master or Mistress isn’t going to be able to help. Likewise, if the Dominant isn’t honest, then the submissive isn’t going to know what they have done wrong and how they can fix it. Honesty is imperative so everyone gets what they want from the relationship.

The submissive must communicate:

Hand in hand with honesty is the need for communication. So a submissive needs to always be willing to talk with their Master or Mistress on a regular basis. This might look like a regularly scheduled meeting or some other agreed upon communication tool. In doing so, there will be times for bigger things to be discussed and problems to be solved outside of the scene.
With these ‘musts,’ the submissive will be able to perform their tasks well – and you as the Dominant will be able to focus on what you need to do: train and control.
With that said, a Dominant should never punish a sub for communicating honestly with them. As all the Dominant does is teach the submissive to do is avoid being open and honest. That doesn’t mean a sub can’t learn how to politely and respectfully communicate these honest thoughts.

The submissive should learn Their Responsibilities:

While it seems like it would be a natural part of the Dom/sub relationship, some submissive’s just don’t realize that they need to understand what is expected of them (as agreed upon by both partners). They need to be able to take on those responsibilities without being told hundreds of times they need to do X or Y. If the submissive isn’t trying to learn their responsibilities, they might be better off not being in a relationship where responsibilities are necessary.
That means a submissive always needs to be responsible and accountable for their actions. If a person is not willing to be either of these, than they might prefer a role as a baby girl, brat, puppy or some other kind of role play where they can just enjoy the moments you share together.
There is nothing wrong with a person not wanting to take on the responsibilities of a submissive. However, a person should never ask a Dominant to take on the responsibilities of a Dominant, if they are not willing to take on the responsibilities of a submissive. It is crucial that both Dominant and submissive accept their responsibilities within an agreed upon Dom/sub relationship.

The submissive should be Patient:

A lot of resources will talk about how the Master or Mistress in a relationship needs to be patient with the submissive, but that doesn’t always happen in the other direction. While you might be the Dominant, your submissive needs to be patient with you, as you don’t always know exactly what to do and when to do it. Dominants are human after all and are prone to make mistakes from time to time.
Or you might have longer term plans in place for your sub, which means they might not get what they want right away. A submissive who isn’t understanding or patient is one that isn’t listening to their Master or Mistress. They’re just trying to ‘top from the bottom.’

The submissive should be Practical and Realistic:

Yes, many subs want to be controlled 24/7 and they want to be thrown into a dungeon in the dark. But bills still need to be paid, and most relationships have other things that need attention. A submissive needs to realize sometimes responsibilities outside of the Dom/sub relationship need to be looked after before the Dominant can focus on their submissive. They will get attention when it’s time to get attention, but only after life responsibilities have been taken care of.

The submissive should be Understanding and Sympathetic:

A submissive must know that regular life stressors can become overwhelming for a Dominant just like it can for a submissive. Not only should a Dominant not train/play during these times, they may not have any desire too.
Many submissive’s struggle with the same issues, and when overwhelmed with life stressors can lose their desire to serve. An understanding ear and sympathetic hand can go a long way to helping a person deal with such stress. If a submissive expects this, a Dominant should be no different.
We all need help when times get tough. Yes, even Dominants need a helping hand from time to time.

The submissive must try To Learn:

A submissive who is coming into a training session without maintaining their knowledge is one who isn’t giving 100%. So a submissive MUST be willing to learn from each session. Sure, you will have off days now and again, but the more they practice and the more a sub focuses on their role, the more they will retain. If the sub isn’t retaining knowledge, they may need to go back to basic sessions until they can hold onto the information they have been given.
This really goes back to responsibilities. If the sub asked to be submissive, part of their role is learning and maintaining that information. If the submissive is not willing or does not want to learn, perhaps they just don’t want the responsibility of being a submissive.
Again, there is nothing wrong with that, as a person’s kink is their kink and should be enjoyed how they want. With that said, there is nothing more frustrating putting in the time and energy to teach someone who never wanted to learn in the first place. This is why it’s important to know a person’s true desires from the start.

The submissive should Practice Discretion:

Sadly, BDSM is still frowned upon and misunderstood by most people. So it is usually a good idea to keep the Dom/sub side of the relationship and training details secret from most people in your life. I have known many people who have lost friends, been disowned by parents and/or been fired from a job for revealing their BDSM desires. If the Dominant and the submissive aren’t in a community that supports BDSM, it is usually safer to keep details about a Dom/sub relationship private.
It is best to only share information with someone outside of the relationship who you know is either open-minded in regards to BDSM or who can truly be trusted to be able to maintain your privacy but still look out for your best interest. Also it can always be helpful for a submissive to talk to others about relationships, kinks and BDSM struggles from time to time. However, it tends to be better to have someone who is kink friendly, as they will understand your need for discretion.
If both partners can not agree on the trustworthiness of an individual than private information about the relationship should not be shared. Remember, it is both people’s (Dom & sub) reputation and life that could be affected by this information being spread to the wrong person.
BDSM is not illegal or immoral, but that doesn’t stop some people in this world from judging or discriminating against those who practice it.

The submissive must Trust:

At the start of any relationship, there will be a period when the submissive isn’t sure if they can trust their Dominant. It’s natural; in fact the submissive shouldn’t trust a Dominant until they have proven they are trust worthy. But as time goes on, the submissive needs to be able to let go and trust, if the Dominant has shown that they can be trusted.
Just like in a vanilla relationship, you can not have a strong healthy relationship if there is no trust. If a sub doesn’t trust a Dominant, they’re not going to get the most from the relationship and certainly not the most from the training.

The submissive must be Sane:

A submissive must be clear with their Dominant if they have mental health issues. They need to be clear about their mental state, what they are doing for it, and how they are managing any current issues. A sub that doesn’t talk about their mental health issues, does not continuously work on their mental health, doesn’t work with a professional on their mental health or one that goes off their medications without any warning is one that is not going to be safe in a scene with a Dominant.
It is unsafe for both the Dominant and submissive if either is currently suffering from any mental health issues that are not being dealt with.

The submissive must be in the Present:

Everyone will think on their past at some point or another, but when someone in a relationship continues to bring up the past, it’s going to make it hard to focus on the present day. A submissive must be able to think about what is happening right now, and let go of the past. If a sub notices they are focusing on the past too much, it might be a sign they need to work with a professional on letting go of these past situations.
Of course, there are some things that a submissive needs from a Dominant, so a submissive is able to provide these needs to their Dominant. Don’t think that a Dom/sub relationship is all about the submissive giving to the Dominant; however that will have to be left for another article.


Grand Master Sean






Today's to do list :

1). Write about this in your discussion section and send it to your course trainer and to your
      Dominant.


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                                   What A Dominant Needs From A Submissive                   Maroon Course
                                                              Discussion                                                Day 15/30



               Your Dominant need these eleven things from His submissive for things to work in
          a Dom/sub relationship. The submissive must be Honest. Honesty is important and
          imperative so everyone gets what they want from the relationship. The submissive must
          communicate, so a submissive needs to always be willing to talk with her Master on a
          regular basis. In doing so there will be times for bigger and much more needed things 
          to be discussed and problems to be solved. The submissive will be able to perform her 
          her tasks well and her Dominant will be able to focus on what He needs to do and that is
          train and control His submissive. The submissive should learn her Responsibilities.
          The submissive needs to understand what is expected of her as agreed upon by both
          partners. She needs to be able to take charge of those responsibilities without being told
          many times what to do, and with responsibility comes accountability for her actions. It
          is crucial that both the Dominant and the submissive accept their responsibilities within
          their D/s relationship. The submissive should be Patient. While you are the Dominant,
          your submissive needs to be patient with you, as after all you don't always know exactly
          what to do and when to do it. Dominants are humans after all and are prone to make
          mistakes. A submissive who is not understanding or patient is one that isn't listening to
          her Master. They're topping from the bottom. The submissive should be Practial and
          Realistic. The submissive needs to realize sometimes responsibilities outside of the 
          Dom/sub relationship needs to be looked after before the Dominant can focus on His
          submissive. We all have jobs and bills that need to be paid. The submissive will get her
          attention when it's time to get the attention. The submissive should be Understanding
          and Sympathetic. Regular life stressor's can become overwhelming for both the
          Dominant as well as the submissive. An understanding ear and sympathetic hands can do
          much to help a person deal with this stress. If the submissive expects this, a Dominant
          should be no different. And yes, even Dominant's need a helping hand at times. The
          submissive must Try  to Learn. A submissive who is coming into a Training Session 
          without maintaining her knowledge is one who isn't giving 100%. She as a submissive
          Must be willing to learn from each session. The more a sub practices, the more a sub
          focuses on her role and the more she will retain. This takes back to responsibilities. If
          the submissive asked to be His sub, part of her role is learning and maintaining that
          that information. If the submissive is not willing maybe she shouldn't be a submissive.
          The submissive should Practice Discretion. Sadly to say that BDSM is still frowned
          upon and is not understood by outsiders. So it is usually a good idea to keep the Dom/sub 
          side of the relationship and training details secret from most people in your life. Many
          have lost friends, family, jobs, for revealing their BDSM desires. BDSM is not illegal
          or immoral, but that doesn't stop some people in this world from judging or discriminating
          against those who practice it. So just be discrete about that part of your life. The submissive
          must  Trust. Without trust you cannot have a strong healthy relationship. A relationship
          is built on trust. There can be a period when the submissive isn't sure if she can trust her
          Dominant. That's natural. In fact the submissive shouldn't trust a Dominant until He has
          proven He is trust worthy. As time goes by the submissive needs to be able to let go and
          trust her Dominant as He has shown He is to be trusted. The submissive must be Sane.
          The submissive must be clear with her Dominant if they have any mental health issues, 
          and what are they, also what she is doing about it and how she is managing any current
          issues. It is unsafe for both the Dominant and submissive if either is currently suffering
          from any mental health issues that are not being dealt with. The submissive must be in
          the Present. Past relationships need to be left in the past. The submissive needs to focus
          on the present day, she needs to be able to think on what's happening Now. She needs to
          to focus on her Dominant in front of her and their Dom/sub relationship.




Use me as Sir desire's




His touch is so soothing





Hold me, teach me, guide me,
train me in your ways. 💋

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Wednesday, May 2, 2018

My Submissive Lesson White Course......




                                          Submissive Training Course

                                                   White Day 11/30

                                            Communication in BDSM



          What will you need to complete today ?
         Paper and Pen
         1x Ice cream stick painted white.


         Today we are going to learn about Communication in BDSM relationships.

         Being able to communicate effectively is the most important of all life shills.

         Communication is simply the act of transferring information from one place
         to another, whether this be vocally, written, visually or non-verbally.

         How well this information can be transmitted and received is a measure of
         how good your communication skills are.

         Developing your communication skills can help all aspects of your life, from
         your professional life to social gatherings and everything in between. The
         ability to communicate information accurately, clearly and as intended, is a
         vital life skill and something that should not be overlooked. It's never too late
         to work on your communication skills and by doing so improve your quality
         of life.

         What is the most important thing is true BDSM relationship ? One can say
         the scenery plays a major role, others will probably say it's the good knowledge
         of the partner's roles; some may even suggest it's the use of right BDSM toys
         that rules the play. With all of these, one thing can be said for sure, there are
         no effective and successful relationships within BDSM relationships without
         good communication skills.
                  The most important thing in a true BDSM relationship is Communication.

         What is good communication in BDSM relationships ?

         Good communication is what we learn throughout our life and what is quite
         a difficult task is for those who are not willing to cooperate. It's a mistaken idea
         that BDSM relationships are about beating, torturing, punishment and all the
         stuff, this outward vision often hides something more important, which is in 
         any way a basis for any relationships.

         I personally wish people would find out more about the lifestyle before they
         think this.

        Communication is the most important aspect of a D/s relationship; it can 
        either make or break most relationships, including you D/s relationship.

        You can improve your D/s relationship today, right now, by putting into practice
        some of these tips for improving the communication in your relationship.

        1,) Stop and listen to your Dominant/submissive.

        2.) Force yourself to hear.

        3.) Be open and honest with your partner.

        4.) Pay attention to nonverbal signals.

        5.) Stay focused in the here and now.

        6.) Try to minimize emotion when talking about important, big decisions.

        7.) Be ready to cede an argument.

        8.) Humor and playfulness usually help.

        9.) Communicating is more than just talking.






        To communicate better and more effectively in your relationship, you don't only
        have to talk. You can communicate in other ways like through your actions, and
        nowadays, electronically too (through email, Face book, blog's, texting, Twitter,
        messaging, or hangouts).

        All too often, couples focus only on the talking aspect of their relationship, but
        your actions also speak loudly. Keeping in touch throughout the day or week
        through email or other electronic means also reminds the person you're thinking
        about them and how important they are in your life. Even if such communications
        are mainly playful or inconsequential, they can help lighten your partner's day
        and improve their mood.

        Some couples also find that using email or another method is easier to discuss
        emotional issues rather than trying to do so face-to-face.It's something to 
        consider if every time you try and bring up a particular topic with your significant
        other, it turns into an argument or they shy away from it. Email or texting may be
        a way of communicating about such matters openly and directly.

        Nobody is a perfect communicator all the time. But you can work to become a
        better communicator by trying a few of these tips. They won't all work, nor will
        they work all the time. Better communication, however, starts with one person 
        making the effort to improve, which often encourages the other to come along
        for the ride.

        Communication is vital to the BDSM lifestyle, and you cannot effectively 
        communicate if everybody isn't using the same language.

        What do you get from effective communication ?
              I get a better understanding of things and less misunderstandings.

        It's the effective communication that distinguishes successful relationships from
        just a rough talk without any goals. What every communication act is basically
        aimed at is a result where both parties get what they expected from the very
        beginning and maybe more. So what are the benefits of good communication ?
                The benefits are it gives me the opportunity to make a connection in a 
                BDSM relationship deeper and stronger. I get the notion of what my partner; 
                either  (me) the submissive or my Dominant particularly wants. It also
                builds that special bond built between us on trust and mutual respect.

        Good communication also includes :

        1. Work on trust.
         The first things about building D/s relationship that are going to last is to have
         faith in each other. It can take you a while before you feel the other side can be
         trusted. In fact with the time trust is becoming stronger in the long run, unless
         you make an effort to ruin it. If you try to keep things secret it can be ok for some
         situations, but when you just don't reveal your true intentions and feelings it's
         another pair of shoes. It's clearer when you say it directly about you likes and 
         dislikes, your thoughts and intentions. That's how a trust is built on and that's
         the communication which makes the relationship work for their purpose.

        2. Make it clear and precise.
        A lot of disputes and misunderstandings have their roots in the communication
        which was not clear or precise. A steady flow of vague words are making the
        conversation incomprehensible. If you have something to say just do it in a
        direct manner. Try to get to the core of the matter and make precise orders or
        give more comprehensive answers.

        3. Learn to listen.
        Give your partner time to talk out until he/she has said everything. Interrupting
        the other half way shows your disrespect for them. it is sometimes hard to put 
        your deep emotions into words that's why listening carefully means you are 
        calmly listening to your partner and make a pause before giving any answer.

        4. Give a feedback.
        It is also important not only to listen but to give a feedback to the one your
        talking to. Since all of us have our own perceptions and put different meanings
        into words, clarifying what has been said is useful to find a common ground. In
        order to really understand whether you got it right, it's useful to say it over again 
        to your partner. It is better to make things clear right away and don't put it off 
        till the misunderstandings will accumulate and your communication will turn into
        claims.

        5. Keep your emotions under control.
        Never consider BDSM play if you feel you are loosing control of your emotions.
        Being angry, stressed or frustrated is no good for successful communication
        especially where the risk takes its place. THIS IS ESPECIALLY TRUE FOR THE
        DOMINANT AS HE IS THE ONE TO RULE THE GAME.




           What is Healthy and Unhealthy Communication ?
        
        Healthy Communication is:
        1. Make communication time a priority, Listen actively.
        2. Maintain eye contact ( as much as is possible).
        3. Maintain a clear perspective of the past, present & future.
        4. Be honest and don't assume anything.
        5. When in doubt ask for more information.
        6. Take time out if things get too intense, but always agree to come back and
             talk about the feelings.
        7. Refrain from blaming or shaming.

       Unhealthy Communication is:
       1. Shows resentment, is inflexible.
       2. Withdrawals both emotionally and physically, blaming the other person.
       3. Escalates discussions into arguments, evades important issues.
       4. Is dishonest.
       5. Assumes the partner knows your desires, thoughts and needs, and is angry
           when they get it wrong.
      6. Spends more time interrupting, rather than listening.

      Try assertive speech -- Assertive speech is a type of communication in which 
      individuals clearly state their opinions and feelings, and firmly advocate for their
      rights and needs without violating the rights of others.

      It is noted that assertive speech is a tool that is exceptionally useful to both D-
      types and s-types and is a foundational  skill for healthy BDSM relationships.

      1) Will you as the submissive promise to always communicate well with your
           Dominant or training Dominant ?
                 I Sarah as the submissive promise to always communicate well with my
                 Dominant and training Dominant.

     2) Will you as the Dominant or training Dominant promise to always communicate
         well with your submissive ?
                 I Master Jamy promise to always communicate with you as my submissive.

    3) Do you feel that communication is important ?
                 I Sarah believe communication is very important, without good
                 communication things can break down.
                 I Master Jamy, yes I do and strong communication builds a good 
                 relationship and is vital for anything to work in life.


       Master Jamy

      Today's to do list :

     1). Please answer the above questions in your discussion section of your file
          and send them to your Dominant/submissive after reading everything.
                  These questions have been answered above in red for my blog.

    2). Write about this in your discussion section of your file and send a photo
         of it to your Dominant.

    3). Write communication on a white ice cream stick, take a photo of it and send
         it to your Dominant, keep the stick, this will be used soon.


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                                               Communication Discussion                 Day 11/30
                                                                                                       White Course.


                 Good communication between a Dominant and His submissive can have
           some great benefits. Good communication can make their connection 
           stronger and deeper and also much more comfortable. With good communication
           you also get to know your partner better, you can know what either the
           Dominant or submissive particularly wants, needs, or desires. Communication
           builds trust and respect between the Dominant/submissive and helps bonds
           them stronger.

               So with good communication you learn to listen better and give some feed
          back on the conversation, then you get clear and precise communication with
         keeping your emotions under control, this also build trust.

              Also with all of this good communication your building trust in each other,
         learning to listen to what is being said and giving feedback on about the
         conversation and keeping you emotions under wrap and making sure that you
         have explained everything in clear and precise understanding.........then you
         should have a healthy and happy relationship in your Dominant/submissive
         relationship with always trusting and respecting each other.







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                           Thank you for reading my lesson on Communication
                                              I hope you enjoyed reading it
                                              and maybe learned something ! !

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