Research From The Letter "B" list .............................

          Butt Plugs :

        
       A Butt plug is a sex toy that is designed to be inserted into the
       rectum for sexual pleasure. In some ways, they are similar to a
       dildo, but they tend to be shorter and have a flanged end  to 
       prevent the device from being lost inside the rectum.

Commercial Butt plugs have existed at least since some customer's of Dr. Young's 

Ideal Rectal Dilators in the 1890's used them as sex toys.

Unlike the vagina, which is closed off by the cervix, the rectum leads to the

Sigmoid colon.  Objects that are inserted into the rectum can therefore potentially

travel up into the bowel; the flared end on a Butt plug exists to prevent this. Some dildo's 

lack a flared end, and thus it is ill-advised to use such dildos anally since they may

get stuck; rectal foreign bodies may require medical extraction.

In addition, the lower bowel above the rectum is easily perforated. For this reason

Butt plugs tend to be shorter than dildo's and their marked size generally indicated the

circumference of the device rather than the length. They must also be very smooth to 

avoid damaging the rectum or bowel. In order to get them into the rectum, they must

commonly have a general profile of a round-ended cone, which then narrows to a 

"waist" which located itself at the anal sphincter, with the flared part outside the body,

preventing the Butt plug from slipping further into the body. The sphincter muscle

will hold the plug by the waist, preventing the plug from slipping out unintentionally.

As with other activities involving anal penetration, such as anal sex, large amounts of

sexual lubricant and a slow gentle approach are needed ti insert a Butt plug.

Butt plugs come in a variety if colors, shapes, sizes, and textures. Some are designed

to look like penises, while others are ribbed or wavy. There are also vibrating Butt plugs

and Butt plugs that can inflate and expand. Some Butt plugs are specifically designed for

men and stimulate the prostate. Others are manufactured with long hair or simulated 

animal tails attached to the base for use in human pony play or kitten play or other animal

fantasy role play.

Butt plugs can be moved in or out for pleasure, for this type of activity ribbed butt plugs

can increase pleasure. They can also be worn continuously ( or be lockable ) for long 

periods of time.

Fetish plugs are Butt plugs that are designed in a way to be unusual, exciting, or unique in 

some way. A Fetish plug is called such because it caters to sexual fetishes. 

Always with any type of Role Playing, Be Safe, Be Sane and Be Consensual .

Trust and Respect your partner ......

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My Submissive Journey..........

 When I kneel for Sir


I am a submissive, I know shocking isn’t it. I have many attributes as a submissive, I smile a lot when I’m happy and I can say things I shouldn’t and do things I shouldn’t when I am being a brat and want to get my own way, or don’t want to do something.

Now as a submissive I have certain rules and rituals that I must follow, I am not owned or collared , but I do have a Dominant that I call Him, Sir. He has laid out a couple rules that I must follow.

Kneeling for Sir is a very submissive posture, it shows that I am humble and vulnerable. By kneeling it also puts the submissive in a position where we can be easily over-powered by the fact that when I am on the ground in my kneeling position it leaves me defenceless.

When I kneel in front of Sir, sometimes I have different feelings, some are of obedience and some are out of over-whelming love and respect. Every time when I kneel, Sir says, good girl or you’re my good girl. These words always invoke a giggle and wiggle of my butt, and I can see the over-flowing love and desire in Sir’s eyes.

Every day I always kneel, when I recite my submissive mantra and when I say my prayer’s and blessings.

When I kneel, at that point I know who I am, I know what I am, and I know the importance of my roll. I know of the powerful feeling ti gives to my Dominant, It shows that I serve Him and the depth of my submission and the depth of what I give to Him

Here’s a few more thoughts on kneeling  : (this part I found from a Dominant John B********)
In the context of BDSM, kneeling is a fairly standard position for many submissive’s and is common theme in BDSM imagery and practice. Within a BDSM encounter kneeling may be employed in the scene for any number of reasons.
* As an act that shows deference by the submissive to their Dominant.
* The posture is one that many submissive feel at ease in and naturally want to adopt.
* In a public environment such as a fetish club or play party , it is a very public demonstration of submission. It can be adopted voluntarily by the sub as an act of submission or imposed on them by the Master or Mistress as an act of control.
* It can be used at the start of a scene as an aid to getting into the right headspace. Before the start of a scene the sub is sent to kneel in the room or space that the scene will take place in and await their Master/Mistress. The act of submission will give them time to contemplate what is to take place and to provide separation between the emotions of the real world and those of the scene.
* In BDSM play the act of kneeling can also be used to objectify the submissive and to reduce their status to that of an item of furniture such as a footstool or seat for the Dominant. This application of kneeling shares elements that are common to forniphilia.
* A woman kneeling in front of a man is well placed to perform oral sex on him, or to be mouth used by the Dominant.

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