My submissive plants .....

                                       This past week my submissive plants are growing so
                          well that I am so happy and pleased.

This is my submissive plant that I thought I had lost from some kind

     of bug that got to it and lost all of it's leaves and then started to turn it branches 

dry. But that it was  not dry since it had moist soil. So what I thought to do is

to try and transplant it and see if it would try to and come back. And Behold it has

it is growing new leaves and new branches.I am so happy that my submissive plant is

living and coming back to life.

This plant is so easy to grow and look after.

My submissive plants and some of my submissive projects

that I had made during taking my submissive courses.

I do miss them.......

My submissive Mango and Pineapple Plants.

This is how I start my submissive Pineapple plant.

From the Top of a real Pineapple.

Trim it off and place it in some water so that it can

start to grow some roots, then after the roots are

good and healthy, plant the Pineapple Top. And

watch it grow as it has in the picture above.......

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Research : What is a Dominant ?

                  I've noticed that there is often an abundance of " what a submissive / slave is " , 

                  but rarely do you see things about what a Dominant is. These are some of the

                  thoughts that I have found throughout the internet , in my submissive course, 

                  and also with my own Dominant/submissive  relationships, of what I think of

                  as I  ponder this question, ..................

                                                      WHAT IS A DOMINANT ?

                  

The  Dominant is first and foremost someone who is responsible for themselves,

someone who has His own life under control.  Someone who has given much

thought to His needs and desires.  He has considered  and understands the 

responsibility of His role and how it affects the life of the submissive to Him.

The  Dominant has the responsibility to provide a safe environment, mentally,

physically and to a degree, financially, if the dynamic He seeks calls for His

submissive to be at His complete service and out of the workforce. A Dominant

should nurture an environment where Trust grows and understand's that His 

interactions directly correlate to the level of Trust established.

The Dominant is responsible to nurture and encourage His submissive's personal

growth, help His submissive to see the path around obstacles, encourage His

submissive to reach for her goals and assure her that she is capable of 

achieving them. The Dominant is responsible to help their submissive back up

should she stumble and reassure her that as long as she continues to try,

that stumbling is not failure. The Dominant is responsible to recognize His

submissive's achievements and provide her feedback, praise and 

constructive criticism.

The Dominant should have a good ear for listening and should become the

submissive's best friend, confidante, mentor and guide to His submissive. 

The Dominant should have shoulders that are available and arms that are

safe. The Dominant should be open and receptive and provide an environment

that encourages Honest Communication. The Dominant should be open-

minded and non-judgmental. The Dominant should be considerate of His 

submissive's feelings.

The Dominant should base His decisions regarding His submissive on what

is in the best interest of His submissive. He should be just as willing to say

"No" as He is to say "Yes", if that is what is ultimately best for His submissive.

The Dominant should understand and be respectful to His submissive's 

limitations, be it physical or emotional. The Dominant should never place His

submissive in a position that could cause her harm in any way.

The Dominant should understand the need of His submissive to please and He 

should provide and allow circumstances for His submissive to meet that need.

The Dominant should see the efforts of His submissive to do  so and make sure

that His submissive is given clear feedback on a job well done. The Dominant

should not take His submissive's service to them for granted. The Dominant

should also provide specifics on what pleases Him or the manner in which

the Dominant would like to see certain things done, if they have such

 preferences.  The Dominant cannot expect His submissive to read His

 mind and just know what He finds pleasing to Him.

The Dominant is responsible for providing structure. The rules have to be made 

clear and concise and it is the responsibility of the Dominant to convey to His

submissive; what His expectations are of His submissive. It is also the 

responsibility of the Dominant to provide discipline when there are clear instances

of misconduct or failure to meet His expectations without valid reasons. The

Dominant is responsible to assure that discipline and punishment is thought out

and that there is something to be learned from it.......and also that it is carried

out and not done in anger. It must convey to His submissive that she is still loved

and that her punishment is born of love and a desire for her to grow as a result

of her mistakes.

The Dominant should be able to love and cherish His submissive and be 

emotionally open to convey that to His submissive. The Dominant must 

understand that His submissive needs to feel loved, cherished and needed

and He should make a conscious effort to be certain that those needs are met

and that His submissive understands His worth and value in the relationship.

The Dominant is responsible to learn His submissive, the way that her

thought processes works, how she internalizes things, her past baggage

and how it possibly relates to her presently today. The Dominant is

responsible to learn her reactions and mannerisms; so that they can be 

better assess what the capabilities of His submissive are ; emotional and

physical. It is the Dominant's responsibility to pry open the mind and soul

of His submissive and He should come to know His submissive inside and out.

The Dominant is responsible to see to it that His submissive is taking care

of their personal health and encourage her to participate in a healthful lifestyle.

It is also the responsibility of the Dominant to care for His submissive in times

of illness to the best of His ability and to not allow His submissive to neglect

her health and well-being at those times in order to maintain the normal routines

and chores.

The Dominant is responsible to see to it that His submissive  is meeting His 

sexual needs. He should be very clear in His expectations of His submissive.

The Dominant is also responsible to see to it that the sexual needs of His 

submissive are being met. He should encourage very open communication

of their fantasies and specific needs and He should also be willing to express

to His submissive His own fantasies and needs. He should instruct His

submissive in the precise ways that He enjoys. Dominant's are especially

responsible for the physical and emotional safety of His submissive during

BDSM play. He should learn His submissive's body and her reactions to 

stimuli. He should be very in-tune to where His submissive is mentally and

physically during a scene. He should provide required aftercare based upon

His submissive's needs and be certain that His submissive does not participate

in activities that could cause her  harm until she is  fully coherent.

These are the thoughts and information that I have found around the

internet of what a Dominant should  be .......

This is the Dominant that this submissive would love to

Dominate Her !!!!!

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It is sad to see that when a submissive does her homework

and research and shares her inner feelings

and thoughts, that no-one and I do

mean no-one every comments

on her articles. 😞

My Submissive Plants

                             Good morning to everyone 💓


               Sorry for not being on all the time and getting
               my assignments accomplished  as I should do !

               This has to do with my struggle with submission
               and  not trying to make excuses, it is my fault they
               are not done...... so I will try harder to do my best .
                 
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                                    My submissive Plants :

This is my African Violet submissive plant and

an new submissive plant that has finally 

started to sprout, they took a long time to 

finally sprout up.

This is my submissive corner in my living room

with some of my submissive plants and some

of my submissive projects that I made 

during my submissive training courses.

My submissive  Memory Bottle,

My submissive Feeling In A Bottle,

and a few others.

This is one of my submissive plants that for some

reason, got sick and dropped all of her 

leaves and started to die, it sort of represented

this submissive's feelings. 

Then I thought let's try to bring her back to life

and so I transplanted her again in new soil,

and cut back all the dried branches and

gave her some water and food and low and

behold, she is sprouting some new growth.

These submissive plants are my special ones,

They are Pineapple Plants and

A Mango Plant, the bright green leaf one.

These were all started from a mango seed inside

of a mango that you buy to eat.

The pineapple's were started from real pineapples,

that I bought to eat and cut off the top of the pineapple.

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Hugs & Kisses

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My Submissive Journey

                                            April 30 ---- May 4th

                  This week I find it hard to focus on my
                   submission, I feel like  I'm sliding away.
                  I have four submissive friends that do help
                   me with all the things going on.



                   My submission with Sir Imran is hard for me
                   to focus on being a submissive. I have not
                   ha   a video call from Master and things
                   between  us just feel different. I want
                   instruction fro  my Master, but He is not into
                   training or instructing me. I know He care for
                   me or why  would He requested for me to
                   come back to Him.

I'm not able to have choices or give my opinion.
Every time I try , I'm told to stop being insolent
and to submit and obey.

He calls me a cunt, every day, in every text or
message, even through Facebook messages. It
feels like it is eating at my submissive spirit and
I feel like I'm slowly dying.

Submission I find lately is hard and it is so much
differently that what I was taught.

                    I was taught that it was about TRUST,
                    Trusting your Master to be able to take
                    you to new heights but to never hurt or
                    push beyond your limits.



                    I was taught that it was about
                    RESPECT. Respect goes both ways in
                    the relationship.
                    It is hard to trust each other if you
                    don't  have respect for your submissive
                    or even your Master.









                                                                             
                  Yes the picture is correct !!!!
                   In submission there is supposed to be
                   freedom for the submissive.

                   While in Domination there is supposed to be
                   responsibility towards the submissive.

                   But in all of that, there is to be LOVE.








                                The Master says come take my hand
                            and I will lead you, instruct you, guide
                            you. I will discipline you also and I will
                            Honor, Trust, Respect, Love, and with
                            open communication.
                    


                            This has just been a hard week for me
                            as a submissive that is loosing herself
                            in depression that her Master does not
                            try at all to get to know what she like,
                            or dislikes.

                             I have been with my Master for just
                             over a year now and in all that time
                            we know hardly nothing about each
                            other and every question I ask is never
                            answered. He gave me one new insight
                           into this D/s relationship of ours that I am

                            there to pleasure Him and that should be my only concern.
                            Nothing else matters.....you are my cunt and your here for my pleasure
                             and for you to give me what I want. Clear, Cunt !!

Yes Master, that is clear...............

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Research From The Letter "B" list .............................

          Butt Plugs :

        
       A Butt plug is a sex toy that is designed to be inserted into the
       rectum for sexual pleasure. In some ways, they are similar to a
       dildo, but they tend to be shorter and have a flanged end  to 
       prevent the device from being lost inside the rectum.

Commercial Butt plugs have existed at least since some customer's of Dr. Young's 

Ideal Rectal Dilators in the 1890's used them as sex toys.

Unlike the vagina, which is closed off by the cervix, the rectum leads to the

Sigmoid colon.  Objects that are inserted into the rectum can therefore potentially

travel up into the bowel; the flared end on a Butt plug exists to prevent this. Some dildo's 

lack a flared end, and thus it is ill-advised to use such dildos anally since they may

get stuck; rectal foreign bodies may require medical extraction.

In addition, the lower bowel above the rectum is easily perforated. For this reason

Butt plugs tend to be shorter than dildo's and their marked size generally indicated the

circumference of the device rather than the length. They must also be very smooth to 

avoid damaging the rectum or bowel. In order to get them into the rectum, they must

commonly have a general profile of a round-ended cone, which then narrows to a 

"waist" which located itself at the anal sphincter, with the flared part outside the body,

preventing the Butt plug from slipping further into the body. The sphincter muscle

will hold the plug by the waist, preventing the plug from slipping out unintentionally.

As with other activities involving anal penetration, such as anal sex, large amounts of

sexual lubricant and a slow gentle approach are needed ti insert a Butt plug.

Butt plugs come in a variety if colors, shapes, sizes, and textures. Some are designed

to look like penises, while others are ribbed or wavy. There are also vibrating Butt plugs

and Butt plugs that can inflate and expand. Some Butt plugs are specifically designed for

men and stimulate the prostate. Others are manufactured with long hair or simulated 

animal tails attached to the base for use in human pony play or kitten play or other animal

fantasy role play.

Butt plugs can be moved in or out for pleasure, for this type of activity ribbed butt plugs

can increase pleasure. They can also be worn continuously ( or be lockable ) for long 

periods of time.

Fetish plugs are Butt plugs that are designed in a way to be unusual, exciting, or unique in 

some way. A Fetish plug is called such because it caters to sexual fetishes. 

Always with any type of Role Playing, Be Safe, Be Sane and Be Consensual .

Trust and Respect your partner ......

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My Submissive Journey..........

 When I kneel for Sir


I am a submissive, I know shocking isn’t it. I have many attributes as a submissive, I smile a lot when I’m happy and I can say things I shouldn’t and do things I shouldn’t when I am being a brat and want to get my own way, or don’t want to do something.

Now as a submissive I have certain rules and rituals that I must follow, I am not owned or collared , but I do have a Dominant that I call Him, Sir. He has laid out a couple rules that I must follow.

Kneeling for Sir is a very submissive posture, it shows that I am humble and vulnerable. By kneeling it also puts the submissive in a position where we can be easily over-powered by the fact that when I am on the ground in my kneeling position it leaves me defenceless.

When I kneel in front of Sir, sometimes I have different feelings, some are of obedience and some are out of over-whelming love and respect. Every time when I kneel, Sir says, good girl or you’re my good girl. These words always invoke a giggle and wiggle of my butt, and I can see the over-flowing love and desire in Sir’s eyes.

Every day I always kneel, when I recite my submissive mantra and when I say my prayer’s and blessings.

When I kneel, at that point I know who I am, I know what I am, and I know the importance of my roll. I know of the powerful feeling ti gives to my Dominant, It shows that I serve Him and the depth of my submission and the depth of what I give to Him

Here’s a few more thoughts on kneeling  : (this part I found from a Dominant John B********)
In the context of BDSM, kneeling is a fairly standard position for many submissive’s and is common theme in BDSM imagery and practice. Within a BDSM encounter kneeling may be employed in the scene for any number of reasons.
* As an act that shows deference by the submissive to their Dominant.
* The posture is one that many submissive feel at ease in and naturally want to adopt.
* In a public environment such as a fetish club or play party , it is a very public demonstration of submission. It can be adopted voluntarily by the sub as an act of submission or imposed on them by the Master or Mistress as an act of control.
* It can be used at the start of a scene as an aid to getting into the right headspace. Before the start of a scene the sub is sent to kneel in the room or space that the scene will take place in and await their Master/Mistress. The act of submission will give them time to contemplate what is to take place and to provide separation between the emotions of the real world and those of the scene.
* In BDSM play the act of kneeling can also be used to objectify the submissive and to reduce their status to that of an item of furniture such as a footstool or seat for the Dominant. This application of kneeling shares elements that are common to forniphilia.
* A woman kneeling in front of a man is well placed to perform oral sex on him, or to be mouth used by the Dominant.

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