My submissive journey..............

                                 My submissive journey for this past week of
                                 September 14th to 20th.


                This week I chose my submissive color, only when going through
                the colors, I realized that I don't have just one color. I have a few
                colors to my submissive personality and in what I like the best,
                that seems to describe what I'm more into. There are actually
                eighteen colors to being submissive and we are not all the same.
                All of us submissive's male and female are made up of different
                things.

                Here are what my submissive colors are and why I chose them :

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I learned what is was that Dominant's Need From A submissive !!

The Dominant needs His submissive to be Honest -- when a sub isn't clear

about what they are feeling or what they need, the the Master isn't 

going to be able to help. Honesty is imperative so everyone gets

what they want from the relationship.

The Dominant needs His submissive to communicate -- hand in hand

with Honesty is the need for communication. So a submissive

needs to always be willing to talk with their Master on a

regular basis.

The Dominant needs His submissive to learn Her Responsibilities ---

The submissive needs to realize that they do understand what

is expected of them (as agreed upon by both partners). They 

need to take on those responsibilities without being told

and be accountable for them. That means a submissive

must always be responsible and accountable for her actions.

The Dominant needs His submissive to be Patient --  while you are

the Dominant, your submissive needs to be patient with you, as 

you don't always know exactly what to do and when to do it.

A submissive who isn't understanding or patient is one that is not

listening to their Master.

The Dominant needs His submissive to be Understanding and

Sympathetic -- many submissive's struggle with the same issues 

and when overwhelmed with life stressors can lose their

desire to serve. Dominant's also have regular life stressors, so 

an understanding ear and sympathetic hand can go a long

was to helping her Dominant deal with such stress. Even 

Dominant's need a helping hand from time to time.

The Dominant needs His submissive to Learn ---- When a submissive

is coming into a training session, she MUST be willing to learn

from each lesson. The submissive will have off days at times, but

they need to practice and the more a sub focuses on their role,

the more they will retain. This is part of the submissive's

responsibility to learn and retain their training.

The Dominant needs His submissive to learn Discretion --- BDSM is

not illegal or immoral, but that doesn't stop some people in this

world from judging or discriminating against those who practice it.

So the submissive should learn Discretion and if they aren't in

a community that supports BDSM, it is usually safer to keep

details about a Dom/sub relationship private and especially when

they are out and about mingling with the vanilla world.

The Dominant needs His submissive to Trust ---  as time goes on the

submissive needs to be able to let go and trust, if the Dominant 

has shown that they can be trusted. It is just like an vanilla

relationship, you van not have a strong healthy relationship

if there is not trust. So if a sub doesn't trust her Dominant they

are not going to get the most from the relationship and certainly

not the most from the training.

The Dominant needs His submissive to be Sane -- the submissive

must be clear with their Dominant if they have mental health issues.

They need to be clear about their mental state, what they are doing

for it and how it is being managed.

The Dominant needs His submissive to be in the Present ----- a

submissive needs to be able to think about what is happening 

right now and let go of the past. True there are things that a

submissive needs from her Dominant, so a submissive

is able to provide these needs to her Dominant. Don't think

that a Dom/sub relationship is all about the submissive giving

to the Dominant; however that is another topic to discuss later.

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My submissive Star Page

This week I left my 3rd star empty. I'm not sure if I did earn

my 3rd star or not. I was not notified, so I left it blank.

Hopefully today I'll get notification if I earned

my 4th star !!!

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In my submission I have been healing much better with doing

my submissive Mantra in my Kneeling position daily and 

with my New Daily Ritual to reorient myself to my

chosen path of a submissive while I wait patiently

for a time to come under the control of a

New Dominant in my life.

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