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Maroon Day 23/30
Maroon Day 23/30
Don't be Desperate
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Being too eager is not always a good thing, you will often hear a Dominant complain about
how a desperate submissive can be off putting. Patience is the hardest lesson to understand as a
submissive.
how a desperate submissive can be off putting. Patience is the hardest lesson to understand as a
submissive.
When you are too eager you can also endanger your rational thought, your emotional and
physical well-being and create a line for Dominants to take advantage of you.
physical well-being and create a line for Dominants to take advantage of you.
If your Dominant puts you in a room and tells you to wait patiently for him, do that, don’t
phone Him 8 times in the hour because that is being too eager and desperate and no Dominant
likes that.
phone Him 8 times in the hour because that is being too eager and desperate and no Dominant
likes that.
So a submissive that is weak tends to come from a place of desperation. What this means is
the submissive entering into the lifestyle has two strikes against her, and will fall prey to those
who are ill-intentioned. The desperation causes a submissive to accept things that a submissive
with a higher esteem would not.
the submissive entering into the lifestyle has two strikes against her, and will fall prey to those
who are ill-intentioned. The desperation causes a submissive to accept things that a submissive
with a higher esteem would not.
Those who are desperate often exhibit the tendency to submit to anyone who will pay
attention.
attention.
When a submissive is too eager then the eagerness gets tricky.
Eagerness is a positive trait when exhibited in small amounts or directed at specific activities.
It’s great to be eager to try something new or explore something new with your Dominant. It’s
also nice to be eager to please when you have a Dominant and you know exactly what they need
of you. Eagerness in an existing relationship can breathe spice and energy into your dynamic
because you both know what to expect from each other and personal safety is responsibility for
you both.
It’s great to be eager to try something new or explore something new with your Dominant. It’s
also nice to be eager to please when you have a Dominant and you know exactly what they need
of you. Eagerness in an existing relationship can breathe spice and energy into your dynamic
because you both know what to expect from each other and personal safety is responsibility for
you both.
But it turns to a more negative thing if when you are brand new or single, that you begin to
disregard common sense, personal safety or naivety. When you are a brand new submissive and
embrace that about you there may come a moment that you ache to do anything at all to please
someone and that’s where you can get too eager.
disregard common sense, personal safety or naivety. When you are a brand new submissive and
embrace that about you there may come a moment that you ache to do anything at all to please
someone and that’s where you can get too eager.
Imagine the danger you could put yourself into if you meet a Dominant online and that night
you go meet him without securing your safety, setting up a safe call or knowing anything about
them. Sure you are eager to please and want to be submissive “so badly” but it is never a good
thing to forget your common sense altogether . Eagerness can also be Frenzy.
you go meet him without securing your safety, setting up a safe call or knowing anything about
them. Sure you are eager to please and want to be submissive “so badly” but it is never a good
thing to forget your common sense altogether . Eagerness can also be Frenzy.
Be careful about calling what you are feeling as eagerness, when it might actually be sub
frenzy. Frenzy is the intense ache to do everything and anything right away, all at once. It’s like
withdrawal from an addiction. You just got to have it, and you must have it now. So submissive's
in frenzy will show a lack of common sense and reckless behavior leading to desperation. Is your
excessive eagerness really frenzy?
frenzy. Frenzy is the intense ache to do everything and anything right away, all at once. It’s like
withdrawal from an addiction. You just got to have it, and you must have it now. So submissive's
in frenzy will show a lack of common sense and reckless behavior leading to desperation. Is your
excessive eagerness really frenzy?
Don’t be desperate.
So, as you can see, being overly eager when not already in an existing relationship is a sign
that you are not in control and a danger to yourself and others. Because not only could you be
injured emotionally or physically but anyone that engages with you could regret it as well. How
many predators or men who just don’t mean you well do you think lurk online looking for
desperate to serve submissive's just like you, who will do anything they ask without personal
regard? Sure you may not be talking to one right now, but how can you tell in your altered state?
that you are not in control and a danger to yourself and others. Because not only could you be
injured emotionally or physically but anyone that engages with you could regret it as well. How
many predators or men who just don’t mean you well do you think lurk online looking for
desperate to serve submissive's just like you, who will do anything they ask without personal
regard? Sure you may not be talking to one right now, but how can you tell in your altered state?
Ultimately, what we all need to learn when we are new is restraint. There are times for
eagerness to please and there will be levels that are acceptable in the beginning. If we learn how
to keep a lid on our desires that are bubbling over then perhaps we can use them to have a positive
effect. Your desires to be submissive will still be with you after you learn more about yourself as a
submissive and about the type of person and relationship that will work for you. So restrain
yourself. You’ll know when you are really ready to engage in submission freely, with someone
you trust.
eagerness to please and there will be levels that are acceptable in the beginning. If we learn how
to keep a lid on our desires that are bubbling over then perhaps we can use them to have a positive
effect. Your desires to be submissive will still be with you after you learn more about yourself as a
submissive and about the type of person and relationship that will work for you. So restrain
yourself. You’ll know when you are really ready to engage in submission freely, with someone
you trust.
Grand Master Sean
Today’s to do list :
1] Write about this in your discussion section today and send to your course trainer.
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Don't Be Desperate Maroon Course
Discussion Day 23/30
example : if your Dominant puts you in a room and tells you to get into your
kneeling position 1 (which mine is the normal kneeling position) and told to
wait patiently for Him to return. He does not say how long He will be, but you
are being tested on your patience. If your Dominant tells you to wait here in
your kneeling position, then that is what is exactly what the submissive is to do.
No calling out to Him, no phone calls or text's to Him. Your Master is expecting
His submissive to sit and patiently wait for His return. By calling out you are
showing your Dominant that you are too eager and also desperate for His return.
A little secret submissive's, your Dominant's do not like that type of behavior.
So a submissive that is weak tends to come from a place of desperation, which
this means that the submissive entering into the lifestyle has two strikes against
her and will fall prey to those who are ill intentioned. The desperation causes a
submissive to accept things that a submissive with a higher esteem wold not do.
The desperate submissive will exhibit the tendency to submit to anyone who will
pay attention to them.
Showing eagerness to try something new or explore something new with your
Dominant is a positive trait.
New submissive's are eager to please and want to be submissive "so badly" ,
but it is never a good thing to forget your common sense, and you put yourself
into danger and forget about your safety.
Be careful about calling what you are feeling as eagerness, when it might
actually be sub frenzy. Sub Frenzy is the intense ache to do everything and any
thing right away all at once. It's like withdrawal from an addiction. You just got
to have it and you must have it now. So submissive's in frenzy will show a lack of
common sense and reckless behavior leading to desperation. So is your excessive
eagerness really frenzy ?
So being too eager can show you are desperate and put yourself in danger and
shows you are not in full control of yourself, and not thinking of others that you
can place into danger also.
There are many predators out there, not only fake man who say they are
Dominants and go online to find weak or new submissive's that show they are
desperate for a Dom. There are also predators out there that can use the lifestyle
to find vulnerable and desperate new submissive's for human trafficking into
the sex trade.
So all I can say is to the new and eager submissive's be patient, you will know
when you are really ready to engage in submission freely with a Dominant that
you have gotten to get to know and you trust in Him. Submissive's already in
submission to your Dominant's show patience and be patient, do as your Dominant
says to wait for Him.
Patience is hard to master but the reward is worth it all and your Master will
adore you for learning patience.
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I hope and pray that you enjoy my discussion on this subject.
Take Care. Be Safe. Be Sane. Be Consensual.
Be Smart !!!
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