I thought it might be nice to do a Documentary of the courses that I have taken so far .....
I have learned so much more of myself, than I did in actual life relationships.
Those real life relationships were not in a loving, guiding way.....they were abusive and
I only learned what I did not like....being lied to....used as a beating post....you might as
well call it rape because it was not consensual ...... I learned to distrust..... I learned to
believe that I was unworthy of a loving, kind, safe, honest, guiding, relationship and I
was taught by these abusive relationships that I was just a vessel to be used and abused.
Then I found this online submissive learning course and it showed me there is a differnt
way that the community of BDSM, that it is not of abuse. That the true community of
Dominants and submissive's is based out of Honesty, Trust, Communication, Respect,
Safety, Loving, Protective, Sane and Consensual. This is the start of the courses that I
was taking and I didn't get to finish them before the owner decided to remove the
website and the blogspot of the site along with the Facebook page, and with no
communication of this fact.
These online submissive learning courses showed me and gave me the courage to ask
questions of my last Master. Even though it always brought on punishment for even
asking a question. With eventually having the courage to stand up to my last abusive
Master and tell him that I no longer will accept his abusive ways and that I am worthy
and I have the right to be respected, loved, protected, trusted, and cared for, given guidance
to, trained in my Dominant's ways, as a female and as a submissive.
This is also an excellent refresher course for all that I have learned and now I feel good
about sharing it with you all. 💝💝💝💝💝💝
White Course : Honesty in BDSM
A Dominant/submissive relationship without honesty is not worth having, because lets face it
if your not being honest with one another, how is the relationship going to work. I fee that
honesty in a Dominant/submissive relationship is by far one of the most important aspects of
the relationship. I feel that at all times, both the Dominant and the submissive must be honest.
A falsehood can be extremely detrimental to the level of trust.
I expect full honesty and I am sure so would you expect that, so if the Dominant and the
submissive are being honest then the rest will be so much better.
Having discovered that someone was not honest to you can turn your whole relationship
around and it can also take away the trust you felt and the confidence you initially had in the
relationship. Finding our your Dominant/submissive is not being honest with you can even
end a relationship !
If it was not for honesty, trust would be a distant thing, honesty and trust are traits that we
respect. Unfortunately, in today's society and especially in personal relationships, the concepts
of honesty and trust are nearly extinct. However, there are those who still hold on to these
traditional values. The ideals of honesty and trust still exist, they will never truly disappear.
It is up to the BDSM community to lead the way back to the growth of these noble ideals.
A true BDSM relationship that is based on the nurturing of honesty and trust in both
partners can be an example to the whole community.
Having a relationship in life is difficult at the best of times. Adding in the complexity
of BDSM is enough to throw anyone for a loop. The bottom line is that relationships
are only as easy or difficult as you make them.
So by staying honest and letting your Dominant know you will always be honest with
Him as He is with you will make a world of difference to your relationship.
It is especially important to understand that the submissive needs to be open and
forthright with her Dominant. Failing to convey emotions, feelings, frustrations, hurts,
and concerns can result in a dishonest or deceitful by omission. Failing to provide your
Dominant with information can be just as dishonest as outright lying.
A Dominant need not tell His submissive all that He knows. He may reserve information
at His discretion, however, any and all information presented to His submissive
must always be the truth. Lies should not be tolerated in any form.
The release of power you gave to your Dominant when you became His submissive
should make it easy to be honest with Him as it was your decision and you gave it to
Him. So by withholding the truth from Him, you not only create barrier in your
relationship but you insult Him in a way a submissive rarely can insult their Dominant.
You insult Him by not trusting Him enough to be open and honest with Him.
Honesty is the basis for trust in any relationship, especially a D/s relationship. The
relationship will suffer greatly as soon as the first lie is told, because when lies of any sort
are happening in any relationship and particularly once they are discovered they
undermine the whole foundation.
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If the submission is not based on honesty the Dominant cannot predict its outcome.
If He can't predict the outcome He's not on top. If He's not on top He's not
Domming. So -- If Dominant/submission is not honest it's not happening.
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1. What are your expectations from a Dominant/submissive regarding honesty ?
My expectations are that both Dominant and submissive be
completely honest with each other.
2. Do you think that lying is ever OK ?
No, I do not by either Dominant or submissive !!
3. Will you as the submissive promise to always be honest with your Dominant ?
Yes I promise.
4. Will you as the Dominant promise to always be honest with your submissive ?
Master Jamy
Today's to do list :
1. Please answer all the above question's in the discussion section of your submissive file,
and send them to your Dominant/submissive after reading everything.
2. On another sheet of paper write the above submissive quote and put it in the discussion
section of your submissive file, and show your Dominant.
3. Write about how you feel about honesty and place it in your discussion section of your
submissive file, and send a photo of it to your Dominant.
4. Write honesty on your Ice cream stick and keep it.
My Submissive File
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