While I was searching for ways to help me learn for ways to teach me the
things I need to know when I displease my Dominant or if I even fail at doing a task.
These are some of the things I found that I could do to learn to be a better submissive.
But first I should apologize , this is my Wednesday's submissive journey blog and
I am a day late in doing my post. Please forgive my lateness.
Even though I try to be the best submissive you can be, there will be times when you
fail. There will be times when you let your Dominant down and that they are displeased with
me. Even though hopefully trying not to make my Dominant made at me, but when I do
disappoint Him, I can use this as a learning opportunity allowing me to become better in my
role and more effective in my submissive title.
Know what I did !!!
There will be times, that I might not understand what it is that I did wrong, even if I
know that my Dominant is displeased. It does make sense to begin the process of atonement
by learning what the problem is/ or what I did wrong. It is best to talk with your Dominant
and ask Him to tell me what I should have done differently. In addition I should search within
myself to find out what I feel I did wrong. There are other layers to my submissive nature, and
I may find out there are some emotional blocks that have stopped me in my goal to please my
Dominant.
Learn what I can do !!
Maybe I should also want to ask my Dominant what He would rather that I would have
done at the time of my failing in my role. When I do this, I can try to learn as many specifics as
possible, since this will ensure I understand exactly what I did, how I needed to act, and what I
will do the next time I am in that situation again.
Ask for Guidance !!
To show that I am not simply asking my Dominant for the answers, let your Dominant
know that you are interested in learning how to make up for mistakes when they do happen. Be
clear in talking with my Dominant about how I want to do better and that it would be helpful to
me to find out what else He might need from me in order to move forwards and past this
situation.
Request Forgiveness !!
Once I have found out what I have done wrong, thought about it, and corrected what
needs to be corrected, I need to ask my Dominant for forgiveness. This might be something
that you will ask for after a few days, since I want to show Him that I have thought on my
mistake and that I understand that I have disappointed Him. Also realize too that He might
not forgive me immediately and be graceful in accepting this decision as well.
Don't Repeat the Mistake !!
The best thing that I can do once I have made a mistake is to make sure that I never ever
do it again ! While it is true that i am human and that I am going to make mistakes, when I am
in a submissive role, it is best for me to make sure that I am diligent about learning from those
mistakes. I will need to spend my time finding out how I can overcome my human propensity
for errors. Practice the behaviors that are acceptable and practice shifting my mind to successful
submission.
For most of the time, mistakes that do happen will be corrected and life in my submissive
world will move onward and forwards. I must remember that I am responsible for my learning
and my growth as a submissive and it is my duty to make sure that I make up for the mistake as
much as I can ---- by learning and applying the lessons correctly.
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