Being submissive and submitting to someone takes self-discipline,
willpower, motivation and the acceptance to move forward when not
succeeding. You can’t get in your own way. You need to be able to move
forward from the past. It is important to grow and move forward when
making mistakes. Don’t let it define you. Understand why you made the
mistake, and how to do better. If you have an attitude, understand it,
change it and don’t let it continue. You have to work through your things,
in order to move forward. Put your focus on your Dominant, and strive for
succeeding with your own unique submission to Him/Her.
willpower, motivation and the acceptance to move forward when not
succeeding. You can’t get in your own way. You need to be able to move
forward from the past. It is important to grow and move forward when
making mistakes. Don’t let it define you. Understand why you made the
mistake, and how to do better. If you have an attitude, understand it,
change it and don’t let it continue. You have to work through your things,
in order to move forward. Put your focus on your Dominant, and strive for
succeeding with your own unique submission to Him/Her.
What kinds of things do we look for in our Dominant partner? The first thing
is a connection. A sexual spark is important, to ignite and bring passion to
the relationship. But, a mental connection is even more so important. The
feeling that makes your mind wander to all sorts of delicious places, as well
as the feeling in our heart. The one that says, he is what i am looking for and
i will submit- to grow, learn, and be loved. He is the one that will earn my
submission. I choose him, and know that he accepts and wants to be my
Dominant/Master. When this connection is felt, it is mutual. The next thing
is trust, communication, respect. These are nonnegotiable, and should be in
place with both people in any relationship. They are the foundation. The
relationship will bloom and grow over time. Kinks and fetishes are good to
have in common and have similarities in the things both people enjoy. But
they may change over time. When exploring, things may be realized that are
either liked or disliked by the person. You open these doors together, and
find out about each other.
is a connection. A sexual spark is important, to ignite and bring passion to
the relationship. But, a mental connection is even more so important. The
feeling that makes your mind wander to all sorts of delicious places, as well
as the feeling in our heart. The one that says, he is what i am looking for and
i will submit- to grow, learn, and be loved. He is the one that will earn my
submission. I choose him, and know that he accepts and wants to be my
Dominant/Master. When this connection is felt, it is mutual. The next thing
is trust, communication, respect. These are nonnegotiable, and should be in
place with both people in any relationship. They are the foundation. The
relationship will bloom and grow over time. Kinks and fetishes are good to
have in common and have similarities in the things both people enjoy. But
they may change over time. When exploring, things may be realized that are
either liked or disliked by the person. You open these doors together, and
find out about each other.
Submission opens the heart and mind. When submitting to a Master who
understands and cares for his submissive. We feel protected, and taken
care of-knowing that he knows what is best for us. Giving Master control,
and trusting what he chooses for us. Finding release and freedom in
submission. There is great love and trust in submitting to Master. The love
overwhelms me so much knowing that he is the most important person to me,
Master. As time progresses, the relationship grows deeper, and the love
becomes stronger. Submission is a need. Accepting discipline, knowledge,
learning and being needed.
understands and cares for his submissive. We feel protected, and taken
care of-knowing that he knows what is best for us. Giving Master control,
and trusting what he chooses for us. Finding release and freedom in
submission. There is great love and trust in submitting to Master. The love
overwhelms me so much knowing that he is the most important person to me,
Master. As time progresses, the relationship grows deeper, and the love
becomes stronger. Submission is a need. Accepting discipline, knowledge,
learning and being needed.
We bare our body in submission, but also our soul and heart. We are seen
naked, and our hearts are vulnerable.
naked, and our hearts are vulnerable.
I borrowed this from the BDSM Beginners Guide website .
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